My bag’s not just a bag; it’s my world, my sanctuary. Whether you’re a The Row girl channeling Margaux’s understated edge, a Bottega devotee with Andiamo’s woven whisper, a Longchamp loyalist folding Le Pliage into your on-the-go life, or simply a tote girlie hauling your whole world in one trusty carryall, your bag’s your ultimate sidekick this season.

Autumn has a unique impact; it's a season where routines become sharper, intentions deepen, and every venture outside feels like a purposeful moment. There's a noticeable shift toward richer textures and warmer, more intentional rituals. I feel a building momentum, as if we are all inherently programmed for this seasonal pivot.

I can’t go a day without a notebook, it’s my brain’s best friend, where I scribble to-do’s, random poetry, or that one idea that hits during a coffee run. My personal favourite? The Leuchtturm1917, hands-down. Those dot-grid pages in soft sage keep my chaotic thoughts in check, and the numbered pages make me feel like I’m writing a novel, even if it’s just a grocery list. This isn’t my journal, though, that stays home, guarding my darkest secrets. I’ve always believed in personal talismans, and there’s something about finding what I call a lucky pen, a tool that feels like it turns scribbles into reality. My lucky pens are from Muji, those iconic gel ink pens, with a fine 0.5mm tip that makes my handwriting look way better than it actually is.

If you haven’t noticed, I’m all about romanticising the little things, it’s the secret sauce that sets the vibe for my bag. Keeping that intention, my next obsession is wired earphones, yep, they’re making a major comeback, and I’m here for it. We’ve all gotten used to having our own soundtrack, and for some of us, stepping outside without headphones feels like forgetting your keys. Bluetooth has its moments, but let’s be real: the battery dies mid-commute, connections glitch in crowded spaces, and those tiny buds? They’re basically designed to get lost. Plus, there’s buzz in wellness circles about Bluetooth’s low-level electromagnetic radiation, studies are mixed, but some suggest long-term exposure could mess with sleep or stress, and I’m not taking chances. Wired earphones, though? They’re the ultimate Boa Vida approved move: zero fuss, no charging, and that effortlessly chic, retro-cool aesthetic with a sleek cable draping from your bag like a style statement. Whether I’m diving into the newest Mel Robbins podcast episode, or curating my autumn playlist, they’re my go-to.

I love a face mist because it’s like a mini-vacation in a bottle, perfect for those moments when my skin’s screaming for a refresh after a long day. There’s something about that instant burst of hydration that feels like a reset. I’m obsessed with Caudalie’s Grape Water Face Mist, I discovered it in a Paris pharmacy, and now it’s my go-to for looking alive during autumn’s hustle. It’s lightweight, slips into any bag, and makes me feel like I just stepped out of a spa.

One sensory trick I rely on is picking a signature scent for each season, carrying a fragrance you love instantly elevates your day, grounding you with intention and a touch of luxury. For fall, I’m hooked on Byredo Bibliothèque roll-on, with its warm clove and vanilla notes that feel like slipping into a cashmere sweater by a fireplace, perfect for a quick pulse-point refresh during a busy day. For a more earthy anchor, I reach for Saje Balsam Fir Essential Oil Roll-On, its woody sandalwood and crisp fir notes bringing a calming, forest-like depth that cuts through the chaos.

I imagine by now most of us share the goal of lowering screen time, and one way to make it easier is seeking that dopamine from a book, let’s be honest, it’s way more chic. If you’re constantly switching books, go for a Kindle, its lightweight design holding endless titles without bulking up your bag. If you’re old-school, toss in a physical book. It’s also a great way to connect with other readers and swap recommendations, sparking conversations that feel more meaningful than a quick scroll. To keep things playful, I carry Cards Against Humanity’s tiny edition. It’s the perfect icebreaker for impromptu happy hours or coffee shop hangs, turning any moment into a hilarious, connection-filled game night with its absurd prompts.

To balance it out, I also keep a second deck of cards in my bag. This one’s filled with positive affirmations. I treat everything like a divine sign, so pulling a card helps me keep my guidance precise and intentional. Otherwise you’ll catch me googling the spiritual meaning of crossing paths with a cat or why my coffee spilled at exactly 2:11p.m. It’s a small ritual that keeps me grounded and gives my day a sense of guidance.

It’s not just what’s in my bag, but also what’s on it. I’ve started moving essentials outside, turning my purse into a statement piece. Bags are accessories with accessories, and I layer mine with intention. You’ll see some staples hanging from the handles, including a crystal for good energy, a lip balm and hand sanitiser, always within reach. Each attachment signals personality, blending function and style. This way my bag becomes a living accessory.

Products Mentioned:

The Row Women’s Top Handle Bags

Bottega Venetta Women’s Andiamo Bags

Longchamp Le Pliage Tote Bags

Leuchtturm1917 Notebooks

Muji Pens

Apple Wired Earphones

Caudalíe Skin Elixir

Byredo Bibliothèque Eau De Parfum

Saje Brainstorm Invigorating Oil Blend Roll-On

Kindle

Tiny Cards Against Humanity